Anna: Rest, in today’s world, can feel almost radical. We live such fast-paced lives, and it’s easy to get caught up in the momentum. What does true rest look like for you?
Elise: You’re absolutely right. Life moves so fast, and we communicate across so many mediums—text messages, phone calls, Instagram, Facebook. That can be overwhelming for me because I’m such a caring and detail-driven person. I always want to give my absolute best to every single request—whether it’s for my business, my husband, or my daughter.
As a sensitive person, this can weigh heavily on my shoulders, and at times, it has even blocked my creativity. I start to feel like a rabbit caught in the headlights. Twice in the life of the business, that overwhelm actually led me to physical burnout, where my brain literally disconnected—I couldn’t think, I couldn’t work. I had to shut down my computer and do nothing for a while just to reset my mind.
Thankfully, those times are over. That was early on when I didn’t have much help, but now I have the most beautiful, talented team, and I don’t feel alone anymore. Burnout is no longer something I fear. However, there are still moments when my inbox is overflowing, and the best answer I’ve found is to live in a place that offers a natural balance to the hecticness of work and life.
Anna: Was learning to rest something that came with time and experience?
Elise: Four years ago, my husband, daughter, and I moved to a house in the Ku-ring-gai National Park, north of Sydney. It’s an hour’s drive from work, but it’s absolutely worth it. Our home is perched on a little hill, with the park behind us and the Pittwater inlet in front of us. We have a jetty, a pontoon, a boathouse—and we have to take a boat to get home, as it’s only accessible by water. That five-minute crossing symbolically disconnects me from work. I leave behind the stress of the day and enter this serene world filled with bushland, wallabies, cockatoos, and magpies who bring their babies to me. It’s my sanctuary, my cocoon.
Of course, it comes with sacrifices—the long commute—but you have to know your priorities in life. For us, the priority was having a home that offers peace and connection with nature. It allows me to stay creative and make every decision with a calm mind.
But I also want to say that you don’t need to move to a remote house to find this kind of escape. Before we had this home, I used a simple mental trick whenever I felt overwhelmed—I would close my eyes and take myself back to my favourite childhood places. One was a little rock pool by the sea where I used to go prawn fishing as a girl. I can still feel the sun on my back and see those tiny transparent prawns. That memory has saved me many times, even when I was organising fashion shows in Paris and feeling completely overwhelmed.
I truly believe that everyone should find their own personal sanctuary, whether physical or imagined. It’s a tool we all have, and it costs nothing. It can be the difference between burnout and balance, between overwhelm and creativity.